When it comes time for someone's birthday, you want to put in some extra thought. Make sure you can come up with some romantic birthday ideas for your spouse to make the day extra special.Give the gift of time. Have your partner open a card that tells them to hold a specific day, or days, just for you. You don't have to let them know what surprise lies in store; only let them know that everything will be taken care of on those days, or nights.